This guide delves into the mechanics of friendship in Stardew Valley, explaining how to maximize your relationships with the villagers. Building strong bonds is crucial, whether your goal is friendship or romance. While conversation and gifting are key, the impact varies significantly.
The Heart System:
The in-game heart meter (accessed via the menu) shows your relationship level with each NPC. Each heart represents 250 friendship points. Positive interactions increase points; negative ones decrease them.
Boosting Friendship Gains:
The "Friendship 101" book (available as a Prize Machine reward or from the Bookseller in Year 3) provides a permanent 10% boost to friendship point gains from positive interactions.
Interaction Point Values:
- Talking: +20 points (or +10 if the NPC is busy). Failing to talk to a villager daily results in a friendship decrease (-2 points, or -10 if you've given them a bouquet, or -20 for your spouse).
- Bulletin Board Deliveries: +150 points with the recipient.
- Gifting:
- Loved: +80 points
- Liked: +45 points
- Neutral: +20 points
- Disliked: -20 points
- Hated: -40 points
- Winter Star Festival Gifts: 5x points
- Birthday Gifts: 8x points
Special Gifts:
Stardrop Tea (+250 points, or one heart; tripled on birthdays/Winter Star) is a universally loved gift, even after reaching the usual gift limit (two per week, one per day). Sources include the Prize Machine, Golden Fishing Chests, the Helper's Bundle, and high-level Raccoon requests.
Movie Theater:
Inviting an NPC to the movies (using a Movie Ticket) yields varying points based on movie and concession choices:
- Loved Movie: +200 points
- Liked Movie: +100 points
- Disliked Movie: 0 points
- Loved Concession: +50 points
- Liked Concession: +25 points
- Disliked Concession: 0 points
Conversations and Dialogue:
Dialogue choices during conversations and Heart Events can significantly impact friendship (up to +200 or -200 points).
Festivals and Events:
- Flower Dance: +1 heart (250 points) for dancing (requires 4 hearts or more).
- Luau: Soup contributions affect friendship with all villagers.
- Community Center (Bulletin Board Bundles): Completing all five bundles grants +500 points (2 hearts) with each non-dateable villager.
This comprehensive guide provides a detailed understanding of Stardew Valley's friendship system, enabling players to cultivate meaningful relationships within Pelican Town. Remember that the 1.6 update hasn't drastically changed the core mechanics, but awareness of these details will significantly aid your progress.